Dear Milo,
She is becoming more independent. She is moving away from the family who raised her and protected her, and spending more time with people she hasn’t known for long. Your task here is to make sure that she feels different from them – like the odd one out. The Enemy is trying to tell her that she her differences are beautiful, and part of His “divine design”, but try your best to make her feel that the differences make her ugly. If she tries to change herself, reward her. Help her rationalize doing things that she knows she doesn’t want to do, and then plague her with guilt for them. When the Enemy reminds her of grace, make her feel trapped in her own mistakes.